When I was in High School, I would tend to judge people for their aspects. It is something that people do most of the time when their young and even as adults. It was a bad habit that I had when I was a teenager. I used to over analyzed people. If I did not like that person, I would ignore them completely like if they did not exist. I do not remember where I got this bad tendency of overlooking people or if it came up naturally. It was an issue that was affecting the people around me.
For example when I met my brother’s friend in high school. Since I saw him, I rejected him by the way he looked. I always oversaw him when I talked to him. There were times that I pretended to be listening when he was talking. At lunch I tried to avoid the places where my brother and he would hang out at. I would excuse myself every time my brother invited me to a place where I knew his friend would be at too. His attitude was the main reason why I could not stand being around him. My brother noticed my attitude towards him as a result he got mad and stopped inviting me to the places just because of the way I was treating his friend. One day, he said to me that it was incorrect to judge people for the way they looked or dressed.
Now that I am in college, I try not to overlook people. As I grow up, I used to judge people for how they looked, talk, and even walk. Now I have learned that I should not criticize people and accept them no matter how they look. If I give myself a chance to know them, I might avoid having problems with them.
You should! never judge a book by its cover, you'll be surprised.
ReplyDeletePeople can actually be very different people than they look.
ReplyDeleteI've learned not to judge a book by its cover growing up too. I met a lot of people that looked different than me, but were interested in the same things as me.
ReplyDeleteGood! I was just like you in high school but it was wrong.
ReplyDeleteYou will be surprised to find great persons where you least expect them!!!!
ReplyDeletegood to hear that you've changed your way of seeing people.
ReplyDeleteI think you aren't the only one who was like that in high many people are like that
ReplyDeleteThey say not to judge a book by its cover and its true.
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